I’d like to not have to constantly update and check in with my dad all the time when I literally go nowhere. He’s says it concern but sometimes it feels like smothering. Like today I went to the gym that across the street from my house. I didn’t tell anyone, I was gone for an hour then came back. My mom and I were laughing that the dog was on the couch when I came back. He quickly asked with distress where I had gone and I said I went to the gym. Then he proceeded to wonder why i didn’t tell him and even my mom is like nothing happened. She told him I don’t have to check in all the time unless he wants updates on everything I do.

I don’t drive and when I was going to a tattoo appointment I already planned to commute but my dad couldn’t let that happen. It’d be a major inconvenience to drive from work, pick me up, then drive me there. Sure pick me up that’s fine it would’ve dark but why couldn’t I commute myself? Even my mom is telling him to let me go a little. I don’t know if it’s because I’m the last kid or what but it’s coming to the point of smothering. Just let me go a little I don’t or shouldn’t have to check in every five minutes on everything I do