Soooo ive been married for 8 years now , i dnt know when or how it happened but over the pass few months we been fighting over everything , i always thought that we should get separated an move on but now that he has actually moved out for a few days i find myself feeling bad an guilty like its my fault that i behaved so immature at times an like its my fault for ruining the marriage he wants to work on the marriage but i honestly have no idea what i want ,but i do feel sad an like im making a big mistake now that he is gone.
Lost in life
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Perfectionism and self- loathing… need help please
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I am really struggling with perfectionism. My parents may be getting a divorce, which is unorthodox in our church,...
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Log: 001. “So…”
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So… I live with my grandparents due to the fact I wished to go to school in the same...
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Started my new job 3 weeks ago. My internet went down and I had to get 5g now. My...
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Summary… Nobody really cares about you in less you have a full pocket
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That includes doctors. Everybody. You don’t have friends… You have acquaintances that don’t care…. They’re Brilliant words of wisdom...
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I cant stand how I obligated I feel
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I know a while back I mentioned how me and my partner broke up. It was what I wanted...
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Here To Help You
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Hello, friends! I just kinda wanted to create this to learn of things you’re going through and offer some...
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To Young to understand real love..
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When I was in middle school I met a boy who completely adored me. He was kind, strong, handsome,...
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I want to be ready but it seems not the time
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In the current events happening in my life i fell like I have finally fallen back into a routine...


When me and my husband would get in an argument and he would leave I would always question myself on how I could have handled the situation better and if it was my fault. I would always second guess things, blame myself and even make the first move to apologize but the whole time it was really all him and his wrong doing. When you play it all back in your head do you really feel like it’s your fault?
hi I’m new and not certain of the rules or social etiquette of engagement here bare with please,,,, but I do likewise “play (problems)… back in my head” as well just to ascertain who what when how & where..things could have been made different ,,, which i know rarely helps after the fact …but usually gives me a leg up on the nex hump up the HopeHill.. So i reiterate the sentiment of rrheas post
…”Lost in Life” is also a sentiment I am feeling…LIL